Let’s be real, everyone deserves pleasure, but not everyone knows where to start. Thankfully, times have changed. Nigerian women and men are finally saying goodbye to shame and hello to self-care through intimacy, exploration, and the magic of sex toys.
But if you’re new to the world of adult toys, you might be thinking:
“Which one should I try?”
“Is it safe?”
“Won’t it look too complicated?”
Breathe. We’ve got you. This beginner-friendly guide from Sexpenditure.com will help you find the perfect toy to start your journey plus tips on how to use it safely, discreetly, and confidently.
What’s the Hype About Sex Toys?
Whether you’re single, married, exploring self-love, or just tired of depending on someone else for satisfaction, sex toys give you control, confidence, and consistent pleasure no questions asked.
And guess what? You don’t have to break the bank or be a “pro” to start.
Top 5 Beginner-Friendly Sex Toys You Can Order Today
1. Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator (Black)
Why it’s perfect for beginners:
Small but powerful, this bullet is discreet, quiet, and gives direct clitoral stimulation. Use it during solo play or with your partner for that extra spice. Slip it in your purse or drawer, nobody has to know.
Pro tip: Pair it with a water-based lube for maximum glide and comfort.
2. 7.5″ Ultra Soft Dude Dildo
Why it’s beginner-approved:
Soft, flexible, and realistic. This lifelike dildo feels just right. It’s a non-vibrating option for those who want to explore penetration at their own pace. The material is gentle on your skin, so you can play safely and comfortably.
Pro tip: Use a toy cleaner or warm soapy water to clean before and after use.
3. 7.5” Lumino Play Dildo
Why we love it:
It glows in the dark! This dildo is fun, body-safe, and ideal for adventurous beginners looking for a playful edge. It’s firm enough for a satisfying experience, yet smooth enough not to overwhelm newbies.
Pro tip: Great for couples’ night games or solo fantasies.
4. 7″ Sliding Skin Dual Layer Dong
Why it’s beginner-friendly:
This toy is designed to feel like real skin with a sliding outer layer for extra realism. The size is manageable for first-timers, and the dual-layer design offers a soft but firm experience.
Pro tip: Try it in the shower, just don’t forget your lube!
5. 3pc Non-Vibrating Strapon (Black)
Curious about role play or switching things up?
This beginner-friendly strap-on set is adjustable, non-intimidating, and doesn’t vibrate, perfect for couples looking to explore power dynamics without jumping into advanced gear.
Pro tip: Communication is key. Talk with your partner about boundaries before you begin.
How to Use Sex Toys Safely in Nigeria
Let’s keep it fun and safe:
1. Always Use Lube
Not only does it reduce friction, it also makes everything feel smoother. Stick with water-based lubes (silicone ones can damage toys).
2. Clean Before and After Use
Hygiene matters. Use a toy cleaner or warm water + gentle soap. Dry it completely before storing.
3. Don’t Share Without Protection
If you must share, use condoms on toys. That’s the cleanest way to stay safe.
4. Charge Your Toys Safely
If rechargeable, follow the product guide. Never charge near water or while using.
5. Listen to Your Body
Never push yourself. If it doesn’t feel right, stop. Sex toys are meant to enhance pleasure, not replace comfort.
Worried About Privacy?
We get it. Not everyone wants a dispatch rider asking questions. That’s why Sexpenditure.com offers:
- Discreet packaging
- Anonymous delivery
- Nationwide shipping
Your business stays your business.
Final Word from the Bedroom
Using a sex toy isn’t dirty, shameful, or weird. It’s self-care. It’s healing. It’s confidence. Whether you’re alone or with someone, you deserve a pleasure routine that actually works.
So go ahead, sis (and bros too). The door to better intimacy just opened and it’s at Sexpenditure.com.
